Signs of a con man...

I am here to tell you the signs of a Con man and believe me there are signs to see them miles away. Yes ladies there are con men out there, waiting and preying on women, you might say, not me I am way to smart to fall for a con man, not so, its not about how smart you are, its about how much smarter he is. I consider myself a smart, street wise women, I don't believe a guy with a line, a get rich quick scheme, or a part with my hard earned money, yet I gotten taken in by a con man, just as all of these wonderful, smart beautiful women I have met in this journey after meeting this con man. Oh yes, he has conned 6 women so far, they we have been in touch with and I know there will be more to come as he keeps doing this, this is his life, he gets a thrill, a high from hurting unsuspecting women, he is a sociopathic liar, this is what he does and has no remorse what so ever, in fact he tries to blame it on everyone else, never taking responsibility for his own actions. These women all are educated, have good jobs, are smart, beautiful and kind. So you ask then how could they possible get conned? Because he listens, we talk a lot ladies, yes we are open books, he knew you were in a physically abusive marriage, a verbally abusive marriage, that you had a horrible childhood, that your looking for a father figure, that you never felt loved, that your self esteem is low. He takes all the facts he gathers and them uses them, he will tell you, you are beautiful, he will say he never meet anyone like you, he will say he is going to step up because known of the other men in your life have, he will do romantic things, sweet gestures, he will charm your children, find out what they are into, weasel his way to your heart through them. He will find out what you like to do and research it so he can say he also likes that, you will be thinking oh my god, hes perfect, how lucky am I? Just then he will tell you he's never felt like this, that he's falling in love with you, that he's never met a women like you, yes do you see that red flag? Yes, you do but your running past it so fast, you say nah!that really wasn't a red flag... Then he will reel you in with a sob story about his horrible childhood and past relationships and how he was so hurt by a women usually his wife, how he stayed because he loved his child. Now, you being the kind nurturer that you are, your being sucked in, we all want to fix that man, we all want to show him what a great women we are, so we start to do things back, romantic dinners, we buy gifts, we open our hearts a little more. He will buy you gifts, dinners, he will bring flowers, he will wash dishes, do things around your house and just when you think it could not get any better... He will then tell you that you are the women of his dreams, that he never wants to spend another night without you, that yes he knows its quick but he wants to marry you, he will even give you a ring, he'll show it to your friends, your kids, your family he will have sucked all of them in to his plan. At this point your first thought will this is going way to fast, something is not feeling right in the pit of your stomach, but you will justify this as well he will see your hesitation and he will sweet talk you some more, tell you things you've longed to hear, thinks you may have never heard before, he knows your a goner, he knows your in love with him, he is as good as in. So against your better judgment, against the red flags smacking you in the face , your heart overrules your head, and you say yes, you move him in, you help him out when he tells you he's in a bind, you give him money, you believe all what he tells you,no one gives him a chance, he's trying to be a better man, everyone is out for him, now you're in defense mode, oh no you didn't just talk about my man! I was lucky, I didn't move him in , I didn't give him money, he knew I wasn't dating a broke brother since he knew me since we were kids, so his game was different with me. I was just blessed to have devine intervention to find out what he was doing, that he was doing this to not only me but 5 other women as well, the same lines, down to his priest blessed this cross for you, Yes,I have met these other women and I like them, he at least has great taste in women, but its a shame for him because these are some wonderful women who loved him but he has taught each and everyone of us a lesson, a lesson that I will keep sharing with all of you, as I never want anyone to fall prey to this type of man. We learned that when something doesn't feel right its not, we learned to know when something seems too good to be true is usually is and we learned that we weren't stupid, we were kind, loving and we believe the best in people. This is his job and he is really good at it. So take heed, listen to your inner voice, hear what others have said and went through but always know your own worth, then you will never need to get it from someone else and fall victim www.beachbodyvoach.com/treadmilltreats.com www.treadmilltreats.wordpress.com