Am I too blunt?

Tuesday Treadmill Treats

Am I too blunt?

The other day I was hit up on one of the dating sites, he was a good looking guy and had a nice profile but was 28. I answered and told him that I appreciate the message but that he was too young for me, after 2 or 3 messages back and forth, pleading with me to try a younger guy (okay, okay it was nice for the ego I admit! )

I finally told him I've been there done that, my first boyfriend after my divorce was 32, which I thought that was way too young as well, he was great, good looking, sweet, smart and  an attorney but he wanted to eventually get married and have kids. Hey, that's great for him! Not for me, again been there done that, not going back there again!

We had a great couple of months but he started to like me too much and I knew this was never going anywhere so why keep going and end up falling in love with him, when I knew this would eventually end in heartache, so I broke it off.

He said "Wow you are blunt"
At this age I have to be, I don't know how much time God will give me here, I don't have time to play games, I am not going to tippy toe around thing's, sorry, why waste time?

Just like dating, I work two jobs, I have 2 girls who I want to spend time with, I have another book I am writing, I always have to do something in my home, I work out every day at 5:30 am while I write this blog and besides the fact that I have some (okay alot!)
Of incredible friend's I like to hang with!

Do I have time to putz around? Hell no! Why waste time with someone who is not going the same places you are? Why date a man if you know he wants marriage and kids and you dont? Okay if you want to just hook up, that's fine, but I've done that and am not looking to repeat past mistakes.

Why Date a Jewish man, or a Hindu man when you are Christian and are into your faith? What is the sense in that? So you hit it off, maybe fall in love and now you have this huge thing between you that is not going to change, it makes no sense at all!

My time here is precious... I have wasted way to much of it already, I don't sugar coat anything, you want sugar coating find Willy Wonker, that ain't me!

So if I am blunt, forgive me but I don't want to waste your time or mine. I am a grown ass women who knows what she wants and will not settle because I am lonely (which I am not) or because I need a man (I have Mr.Marshmellow) or because I need one to make me complete (I already am complete, happy and I am  filled with joy and peace that makes me love myself)
Sorry, I got all of that covered!

So I am putting it out there...... I would like to meet someone who has faith like me, who is a family man, who is kind and funny, faithful and romantic. A honest man who can accept me for being the strong women that I am. A man who doesn't want a family, who's kids are grown or almost grown, who enjoys the same things I do, who is healthy and fit, who loves the outdors and the city. Someone who will make this incredible life I have, just that much better, someone to share lives adventures with.
Until then I will keep being blunt.

So today my friends, be blunt, say what you want and definitely what you won't put up with. Stop beating around the bush, the world won't end if you say your wishes, no. .. it will just give you exactly what you are asking for if you wait.

"Be the change you want to see"
 
"And just when the caterpillar thought his life over...he turned into a beautiful butterfly"

***Now available***
My book "The blessing in Disguise"
Selling on my website:

Http://www.treadmilltreats.com

And on Amazon.com

http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0692437398/ref=mp_s_a_1_13?qid=1462358109&sr=1-13&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65&keywords=the+blessing+in+Disguise

http://www.am6azon.com/gp/aw/d/0692437398/ref=mp_s_a_1_12?qid=1434452632&sr=8-12&pi=AC_SX110_SY165_QL70&keywords=the+Blessing+in+Disguise

My weekly Youtube page, please subscribe:
https://youtu.be/LDSXCFJVnzM

Twitter: treadmill treats
Instragram: treadmilltreats
Facebook :treadmill treats
Meduim:treadmill treats
Pintrest: treadmill treats
Google+: treadmill treats