Maybe there are no Princes

Maybe there are no Prince's...maybe I should go for Cinderella?

I write all the time about waiting for my prince to come and yes, he did but I didn't realize you must be so specific when you put out what you want.

I didn't say on my list that he should have had older children or not want children at all and unfortunately he wanted kids.

So back to the drawing board for me again, I have to tell you I am not sure if there are any Princes left, he may have been the last one left out there.

I'm just kidding, I know there has to be other great guys out here but I figured they must be lost in the forest on their turtles coming for me. Seriously.

If you are single nowadays, you know what I am talking about, there are way more toads out here, then Princes out there.

I have been stood up, catfished, lied to ie; I am fit  (Yeah, your fit... fit into XXL) I work out (Going from the couch to the refrigerator is not considered working out)

I have been played by men, the your in, your out, your hot, your cold kind of men. I fell for con men who were dating 4 others and even lied about being divorced.

I've dated narcissists, passive-aggressive, controlling men.

I have had my heart broken, I have fallen in love and not had that love returned.

I have been asked to spank a guy with a wooden spoon, asked to be tied up, had them talk about sex as soon as we started talking (Even though it clearly and boldly says I am not looking to hook up in my profile)

I even got so many pictures of their junk, that I can open up my own porn hub. I can call it Dirtydicks.com or little weenies are us, how about gross bathrooms.com. Really?? Really?? And this was all before I even met these guys!

Yuggg.... prince's? No, more like Kings...of freak, please!!

So many men out there treat us all like pieces of ass, like  cherp,cherp girls, like Steve Harvey calls them. 

If you didn't read his book or watch his movie, it's guys who get to their car and push the alarm button to unlock the car, cherp, cherp and then gets in, leaving us standing there waiting for them to open up the car door for us..Wtf?

The men with manners, who are romantic and a gentleman are long gone, now we get guys who only have big ball's behind a computer screen.

Yes, there are no Princes out there and if they are, I am telling you again that their horses are  definitely lost in some dam forest, in a far away land because in today's society they no longer exist.

Now some say I am too picky…

Okay, let's break this down:

I don't care about money...been there and done that.

I don't care about status...I have also been there. 

I don't care about what they do for a living...isn't that the big three for most women nowadays?

I also don't care if you're not 6'2 like most women want, and as long as you are taller than me when I wear heels, then we are good.

That isn't too hard as I am 5'3.

What I do care about is that they share my faith, that they are faithful, kind, and funny. That we enjoy a lot of the same things. I want a man that is self confident, not jealous, no drama. That they are in some kind of shape as I am very active and want to enjoy working out, bike riding, surfing, hiking with someone that I enjoy their company with. And now I must put that into the list as I am not repeating that mistake again, must either have children or don't want children 

Is that too picky? Really?

Sorry I will be alone if that's the case.

I refuse to settle or go back to the life I had before, unhappy but I had a man…not happening!

I don't understand why so many women do that. They settle for lousy men, cheating men, men who clearly still have issues or they settle for half a man, aka men who are married, then complain about it.

I'm sorry I love myself too damn much to settle. I have an amazing life, I have my 2 incredible daughters, my own home, my own business, I have many friends, and most importantly I have peace and joy in my life.

I would like a man, but I don't need one to complete me or make me happy.

So today my friends, my message today is that I will  still keep looking because I am an optimist. I will hold out hope because I am truly a romantic and because I am Tinkerbell, and I believe in happily ever afters even though I have kissed so many frogs but I got to tell you, lately Cinderella is looking better and better at this point....

"Be the change you want to see"

@Treadmilltreats