No Regrets

No regrets 

If you ask me if I have any regrets in my life, I will tell you no. Everything I've done brought me to where I am today. If I did have one regret that I used to hold on to, it was that I didn't go away to college. I was a mama's girl and didn't want to move away from my mom and I regret not having that whole college campus life experience.

But I let that go too, I have learned that life is too short for regrets, and it's too short for what if's. If you make a mistake, you need to learn your lesson, then move on and don't look back. Don't beat yourself up over the mistake and definitely don't let anyone hold that mistake over your head thirty years later.

You hear people say all the time, I should have done that, I wish I did this differently, or if I could do it over I would do this...

Recently I was talking to my soul sister and we were talking about my book. She asked me if I would change my life and all the pain I had in it, if I could?

I didn't have to even think about the question. No, definitely not, all that I went through, I had to. There were big lessons I needed to learn, to be able to share with others, to grow and be in this place of peace, that I am now in. 

I know how much pain I had in my life but even still, I wouldn't change a single thing. I don't beat myself up for the horrible choices I have made and believe me, I made many, especially when it came to men, lord help me! 

But each mistake made me stronger, it taught me what I wouldn't put up with the next time around. It made me know my self worth and learn how I expect to be treated the next time.

Everytime I fell on my face, it taught me to be able to laugh at myself, to let go of my ego, and to be brave enough to put it out there to teach others a lesson. Everytime I said or wrote something stupid, I learned to apologize, to let go of trying to be right, or to humble myself and admit what I did wrong.

Every pain of losing people I loved taught me to not take a loved one for granted. It taught me to let people know how much they mean to me, each and every day that they are here.

Every betrayal of a friend or family member, taught me to hold tight of the ones who had my back, to trust my institution, and to let go of hatred and anger. Yes, everything I went through every broken heart, every tear I cried at night, every time I cried out to God because I thought I could no longer go on, every one of these things taught me a lesson that shaped me into who I am today.

So today my friends...download this blog, print it out and reread it. Or send it to someone you love. My lesson to teach is before you lose someone you love, tell them you love them. If you hurt them, apologize to them and then appreciate them. Look for and learn the lessons in your failures. Live your life large, and learn to live your life with no regrets.

"Be the change you want to see"

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