You never know what's going on inside of that shiny dress...

You never know what is going on in the inside of a person by looking at the outside. Yes they maybe in a fancy suit or dress, the hair and nails maybe done and they maybe driving the car you always wanted or live in the big house on the hill you've always dreamed up but you have no idea what is going on in the inside. They might be suffering from depression so bad that they can't get out of bed in the morning, that women looking so sharp might be in a verbally abusive marriage,she may hate herself (but don't she look good?) that person that speaks so well and is highly educated may still have demons chasing them from their childhood of abusive and neglect, they can't ever trust and ruin all their relationships because of that. You don't see what they want you to see ,the nice shiny,polished side , so that You think "wow that person has it all or it so pulled together " when the truth is they are barley holding on. I was talking to a friend who asked why I put all my life on my blog it is so that I might break the myth of that ! Yes I looked like I had it all nice house ,nice car ,great vacations,two kids ,nice clothes,jewelry ,perfect marriage to the outside world I had a life anyone would want ! Ahhhhh but you only saw what I wanted you to see! On the inside I was dying a slow painful death,hating my life and how I let him treat me but you would have never known looking at me ! I write all of the good the bad and the ugly to dismiss the myth and help others get out of the darkness and let them know there is a light ,its okay not to look or be perfect ,that we are all broken in one way or another and that there are better days if you belive and have faith .So I tell you now that old saying is true "never judge a book by its cover" because you don't know if their is a horror story in there under that pretty cover!