We are made to love...

Thursday Treadmill Treats

We were made to love...

Living unloved is like clipping a birds wings and removing it's ability to fly...

Pain has a way of clipping our wings and keeping us from being able to fly and if left unresolved for a very long time you can almost forget that you were ever created to fly in the first place.

Yes, we've all been hurt before, we have all loved and lost, we have been lied to, cheated on, someone we loved with all our heart walked away and took our heart with them.

Yes, we have all been there, crying the ugly cry, thinking we will never get over this pain, alone and lonely.
But two things can happen either you will shut yourself off, you will built these walls around you and you refuse to let anyone in. Yes, the hurt was so bad that you never want to take that chance again, you never want to feel that pain again, so you shut down emotionally.

And after a while it gets easier to shut people out, you got this, you don't need someone in your life, your fine...but we were meant to fly...to love... not to be alone, yet the pain you had in the past still rules your life and you refuse to take that chance.

Or the second option is to open yourself up, to give your heart again and if you get hurt, well at least you tried. Will it hurt less? No, it will probably hurt more but no guts, no glory. Go big or go home!

We all will get hurt in this life, by someone we love, by family, by friends, losing jobs we love, people we love, this is life people...

We can't crawl into a box and close the top and not live, not feel because we are so afraid of the what if's...

What if they are the one? What if this is the love of your lifetime?
What if you walk away because your so afraid, because fear rules your life, because you think they will be the same as the last person that broke your heart and you miss out on the best thing that ever happened to you.

You will never know until you try, you will never get to the finish line if you quit.. I use to love the show the biggest loser, they would make them do marathons and these people never walked around their blocks nevermind running a marathon, they quit so many times before yet they were there and they were determined to finish no matter what the cost, some of them would cross the finish line after dark the last one, hours and hours later but they never gave up, they did it!

You will never know true love if you don't try, you will never know your true self unless you've been hurt and know what you will and will not put up with.

So today my friends I am here to tell you that these are all just lessons, learn them, trust your gut, and take a chance, you were meant to fly... yes, soar like the eagle that you are...the views are amazing if you step out and fly....

"Be the change you want to see"

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