Never going back there again

Never going back there again...ever

I am an easygoing person. I try to see the best in everyone, and I am big on forgiveness, but when I am done with you, I am done. There is no going back, ever!

I will give you the shirt off my back, I will be your friend through thick and thin. If I am in love with you, I will be your biggest cheerleader. You will never have to think about if I have your back, because I do!

If you break my trust, if you purposely hurt me, then it's over, done, finished. I am a one and done girl, just like my idea about tattoos. For me, it's one and done. I don't need to feel that pain again.

I got one tattoo that expresses all I feel, so I'm done.

Yes, I will forgive you but sorry I don't need to learn the lesson again.I'm good, thanks. When I finally had the courage to leave my abusive marriage, that was it. There was no going back. I've been there, done that, and I knew the results would continue to be the same, so why stay?

When my ex-boyfriend cheated years ago, I threw him out in the street at 1 am. on Christmas Eve. Oh yes, I was done, Christmas Eve or not. Sorry, not, sorry.

Just like Mr. Con Artist who was leading a double life. I threw him to the curb at 2 am (Wait...there's a pattern here…don't piss me off in the middle of the night if you need a place to sleep)

It's over, done, no explanations. No, I'm sorrys, I don't need a repeat performance, I got it loud and clear the first time.

I don't understand people out there who let "others" hit them, then make excuses for their behavior. Then, after the second or third time, they are still there. Why? Do you really expect a different result? The definition of insanity is doing the same things and expecting different results. He's cheated on you a dozen times. Do you really think if he does it 13 times, that will be enough for him? Do you think he will stop there? Come on, be real!

Is a no good man better than no man? Are you afraid of being alone that you will put up with anything? He's lied about his past, his finances, and his exes. You've caught him in more lies than you have fingers and toes, yet you believe the next thing he says that comes out of his mouth, really? I heard that the Brooklyn Bridge is pretty cheap, and I can get you a good deal on it. Come on, do you actually believe that bullshit?

He's promised he would quit drinking, gambling, doing drugs, yet he comes back to you again, broke and drunk. And there you are cleaning up his puke and lying to the landlord yet again, why?? Why do you think this time will be different?

I am not saying that people don't make mistakes. Read my blog. I am far from perfect and have screwed up plenty of times, but there has to be a line, and if you cross it, it's over. I like myself way too much to be treated like that anymore. You should like yourself that much. Believe me, being alone is so much better than being with someone you can't trust or has hurt you over and over again. I swear to you, you will be okay.

So today, my friends, my message is to have some self worth, and know your value. You need to know that you are a queen or king and by God, you will be treated like one or there is the door, don't let it hit you in the ass on the way out! Period!

Learn your lesson, take it, and move on. Be determined that you will not repeat that mistake twice. You will see it coming the next time, you will lay ground rules on how you will be treated, and if they do not, then it's over and mean it 

Dr. Phil always says you start a relationship the way you want to be treated. So stand up and know your worth and take nothing less! You will be amazed at how good that feels, and let me tell you that you are worth it. Stand up and don't look back. You can't drive your car looking at the rear view mirror. Don't go back there ever again.

"Be the change you want to see,"

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