Putting The Truth Out There

Putting it out there 

So if you know me or follow me you know that I was in a verbally abusive marriage for 24 years. You also know that I speak on it a lot especially during domestic violence month. But let me tell you why I do this.

I do not speak on it because I am not over it. 

I do not speak on it because I want to get back at him. 

I do not speak on it because I feel like I am a victim.

I speak on it because I know that there are others out there going through this. 

I speak on it because I have a platform that reaches people. 

I speak on it because I know what it feels like to think no one knows what you're going through and that

you feel alone.

I speak on it because this is my purpose, to inspire others, to give hope and hopefully help others.

This is why I speak on this.

Today so many people have opinions and think that their opinions are the end all to be all and good for you. We all know that opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. Other peoples opinions will not stop me nor will my ex crying about me always talking about him. Hey! If you wanted people to speak good about you, you should have acted better. 

That…right…there. 

You can't cry now because you're getting called out for YOUR bad behavior.

But let me thank you, because your bad behavior taught me lessons. Huge lessons that is now my purpose to pass on to others. 

Lessons like don't listen when they tell you that you can't make it without them.

Lessons like you will survive, not only survive but you will thrive alone.

Lessons like money don't make you happy. Trust me, peanut butter tastes so good with freedom, with peace and with the joy you will feel when you leave.

Lessons like how strong you will become, how you will love yourself again and the biggest lesson, showing your children how strong you are for not allowing this to continue.

So today my friends and to my trolls out there, Sorry…Not sorry. I will continue to talk about what happened to ME! This is my story to share, this is my hell that I've lived through, so that I may pass it on to others going through the same things. 

This is to inspire others to find the strength to leave and if you don't like it….then, you can stop trolling me. But for me, I'm not stopping but here's a thought… 

Maybe, just maybe it is because the truth hurts…but hey, there is always therapy for that.

Let's all try to be the change you want to see.

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