Let's talk about the crazies

Let's talk about the crazies

Yes,unfortunately there will be some people in your life that are crazy. My bestie use to always say "The crazy doesn't come out until you date someone for at least 6 months"

I believe that, you are on your best behavior during that time but here comes that 6 month mark and it's getting harder and harder to keep the act up and then BAM! Here comes the crazy!

But in today's world, crazy can be really scary. I knew two friends that were killed because of crazy ex's. I myself was stalked for months, I didn't  know who it was but he certainly knew everything  about me. He knew where I lived, who I walked to school with, my routine. He would call and tell me he was going to slit my throat and watch the blood drip out and many other unmentionable things. Every day he would call and this went on for months.I was constanly looking over my shoulder, I never went anywhere alone, I was petrified.

It turned out to be a guy I just dated a few times, months before, who knew? He was crazy and scary.

My daughter also had ex that turned crazy, he would call all her friends, he blocked his number and called all night long into the wee hours of the morning. He would follow her, he showed up where she was at and even went as far as to hack into her school account and mess up her grades by taking tests and assignments wrong, pretending to be her.

I don't get it,  someone breaks up with you, or you break up with them, it's over. My motto is it's their loss not yours.

They lost a good thing and the next person will be getting you, a gem.
Move on, get over it! Hell even when I was lied to, conned and cheated on by Mr. Con Artist, I was done.
I busted him in the head with his phone, threw his crap into the street and left him to walk back to the airport with 2 days remaining on his trip here. It's done, don't call me again, no second chances. it's over, finished, caput, done, adios sucker, your outta here!

Yet some people can't let go, they don't get the concept of its over and that's when the crazy comes out in full force.
So let me give you some warning signs and trust me they are always signs..

1. Trust your judgment, if your senses are screaming or even whispering listen!!

2. Are they quick to jump off the handle and then quick to apologize?

3. Are they controlling? Wanting to know who your with, your every move?

4. Do they separate you from your friends and family?

5. Does 2 +2 don't add up yet your still making excuses for all the things they are telling you, you always justify it?

6. There is something not right but you can't put your finger on it?

7. Are they insanely jealous, even for no reason?

If you answered any of these questions yes, Run Forest run, pack your stuff and get out of town, God gave you that gift of sense for a reason, use it!

So today my friends remember to listen to your inner voice, know when  something is off, get out quick because the crazy is coming and you don't want to stick around for the full show.

"Be the change you want to see"
 
"And just when the caterpillar thought his life over...he turned into a beautiful butterfly"

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