What Do You Do When You Get Discouraged?

What Do You Do When You Get Discouraged? 

We all get discouraged now and then. Hell even the most positive people have this happen to them. I had this happen to me and I'm probably the most positive person you can meet. 

You think you can't do this, it's not working, or it's not coming fast enough. Maybe it's just easier to give up, or just to forget about it. 

I remember when I was at the end of my rope, I had literally hit rock bottom.

 

One day me and some friends went to a card reader, I needed to know what was going to happen in this horrible marriage I was in. Well, it definitely wasn't what I wanted to hear. She told me I would still be in this horrible marriage for another 4 years. 

I remembered I screamed at her "4 years! Are you crazy? I can't do this for 4 more years!" 

Yet, it wasn't time for me to go. I wasn't sure of myself at that point. I needed more time to know I was strong and independent. I still needed to know that I would be able to make it on my own, to be able to take care of my girls.

Did I get discouraged? Hell yeah, but I kept going and every time I thought I couldn't do it, I thought what would it look like to be happy, free, and on my own? I would dream of it, envision it as if it already happened, it was real to me as real as me breathing every day or crying myself to sleep every night of those four years.

I would think of the outcome and that would keep me going. I wrote about it, I had a vision board, and I put it out in the universe each and every day. I never gave up, even after I got knocked down. I couldn't find a job for almost a year, and we were still living in the same home during the divorce. The constant fighting and the hatred in the home was overwhelming yet I still held on to hope. 

After the divorce, I got no alimony and a measly $250 a month of child support for both girls. But through all the disappointments I held on...Yes, there were some pity parties. I can't lie because I am human and yes, there were days I cried but the next day I was back stronger than ever.

So today my friends, think about what will happen if you don't get to your end result, where would you be? What if you gave up? 

Well, you never know if you quit. You need to look at the big picture and let nothing stop you from getting there.

Get off Disappointment Street and start walking on Hope Ave, because it's a way different neighborhood. 

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