Why Do Men Lie?

Why Do Men Lie?

This is the question my girlfriends and I were asking each other the other day. Now look I know women lie as well but we were talking about men. Why is it that they must feel the need to try to get over on a women? Is it to show they have the upper hand? That they are "the man"? Is it to be the big boy on campus? What is the reason for this?

Do they feel they must always look a certain way, or carry themselves a certain way? To prove their worth?

I guess when you can't fully comprehend why a person would do horrible things, it's because you could never see yourself doing these same things, so you can't grasp the idea of purposely hurting another person.

I remember when my girlfriend decided to go out with this guy who was continuing to pursue her for weeks at the gym. She thought he was a nice guy. Hell, I thought he was a nice guy. (Okay, I am not the best person to judge men!)

She went out with him and guess what? Yup, he lied. He was married?? Why would you lie and pursue a woman when you have another one at home?

Why would you want to go through all the trouble to try to keep up with all your lies? People do things, to get a result. 

You do drugs to feel high, most people start drinking to dull the pain they have. You're a sex addict because you never felt loved and so you keep looking for it in every person you sleep with.

So what do you get from lying? The fact you got away with it? The excitement of possibly getting caught? Again we are baffled as we couldn't imagine doing that.

My girlfriend tells me all the time about married men that hit on her and yes, she knows they are married. This just pisses her off! We know you are married, so what does that say about what you think about us? That we are okay with your lying and cheating? That we are going to play along? What? 

Wake up! We think you're a pathetic liar and cheater. This does nothing for us, no we don't feel flattered, we don't think it's cute, we think you're a slime bag. You obviously have no respect for us, your wife, or yourself. 

So today my friends and the dirtbag men that are out there lying. The next time you choose to lie, think about why you are doing it. Think about the people you are hurting and think about how others view you. You are your word and if your word is worthless, well then so are you!

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