Learning To Be Good With Being Alone Part 2

Learning To Be Good With Being Alone Part 2 

So yesterday I wrote about my issues with men and how I went from man to man with the same issues, picking the same kind of men. Now I want to talk about how I have learned to like being alone. So if you know me or follow me you know I have written extensively about my dating experiences. I can't tell you how many horrible dates I've been on or how many unsolicited dick pics I have gotten. 

When I took the year off to mend my broken heart I thought, well, I've worked on myself and maybe I would like to put myself out there again. So I signed back up to some dating sites. Then I talked to many catfish yet again and went on many more horrible dates. Even writing about them didn't give me any joy. After a while I gave up. It took too much effort to get dressed, do my hair and makeup just to get a free drink or meal. I can buy my own meal and enjoy it by myself, it just wasn't worth it. And so I gave up again and decided that I was good with myself. 

I always thought why do women give up and stay single and now I get it. I'd rather be single and happy than catering to a man and be miserable. I don't have the energy to give my all to be the best woman when they only give 10% back.

I don't need a warm body in my bed, I can choose who and when I want one and for how long. I am in charge of my own happiness.   

And I'd rather spend time with people I actually enjoy doing things I like than pretending to be amused at your stupid jokes or trying to keep your hands off me on the first date. Omg! It's exhausting and at this age I couldn't care less. I get it, I honestly get it. When you learn to love yourself, when you work on yourself, and when you deal with your own demons and childhood issues. You realize that you don't need a man to complete you because you are already complete. It is then you will learn to be good with being alone.

And like I say at the end of every blog only you can be the change you want to see.

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