Stop being haters

Stop being haters

Recently I heard a story about Yung Joc, in case you don't know who he is, he is  a DJ, radio host, Tv personality and rapper. Well the story came out when someone was in an Uber and recognized him as her driver. She immediately started to video him, all while asking him all these questions about why he of all people was an Uber driver.

She only did this to call him out and what was her motivation? Well it's obvious she wanted her 5 minutes of fame and she was a hater. Look leave the man alone, he was trying to make extra money doing something legal and why would you try to shame a man for that?

We should applaud men like that, hustlers out there trying to make it, not shame them. Would it have been better if he was the man who sold you your dime bag? Why call him out like that? That's what is wrong with people today, everyone wants their 5 minutes of fame and will do anything to get it .

Remember the story about the ex-Cosby Show actor who got job-shamed for working at a Trader Joe's? Well, he got the last laugh of being a hardworking man when it backfired on the hater that outed him. Tyler Perry heard the story and hired Geoffrey Owens after he was outed by a shopper who shared unflattering photos that went viral of the actor bagging groceries. Since then, the classically trained actor, who portrayed the Huxtables' son-in-law, Elvin, has been sifting through numerous other offers, including one by Nicki Minaj to give him $25,000.

Ha! Screw you hater! Karma is a bitch! You thought you would get your 5 minutes of fame by shaming this man for providing for his family any way he could and won't God do it! Here he is on one of the top rated television shows now because your pettiness backfired 

I never laugh or judge others because of their hustle because I know the hustle is real. My parents taught me that lesson, they both worked full time jobs and after work they would work on our old broken down farmhouse. My dad did side jobs as well as working and fixing our house. I always worked even when I went to college full time. I  held down a full time job and hustled by doing hair on the side.

While I was married I worked whatever business we owned, I also took care of 100 lizards 30 sugar gliders and 12 ferrets we bred, feeding them every day. Then I would cook and clean the house, take care of 2 small kids and when they went to bed, I did hair at night.

When I got divorced people asked me how do you work so hard? To me it wasn't hard, at least I didn't have to clean the pool or cut the grass anymore and I could come home after working 10 hours to a peaceful home and know that I am finally happy.

Yes, I work a lot, I own a professional organizing and personal assistant business, I have 3 salons I run and work in, I do hair at home and I do focus groups to make extra cash. I also volunteer at church and spend time with family and friends. I hustle, that is what I do.

Hard work doesn't scare me, I was raised to do what it takes to make it. Just like these two men were, there is no shame in your game when you are trying to provide a roof over your families head. You do what you gotta do. I would never shame someone or look down on someone who cleans toilets, or picks crops or what others would call demeaning jobs because I know the struggle is real. They will do whatever it takes to feed their children and I applaud them, they are not asking for a hand out or doing anything illegal so mind your own dam business.

So today people, stop being haters, stop trying to shame people for hustling, for trying to make a better life for themselves. Stop worrying about your 5 minutes of fame by degrading others, worry about your own "perfect" life and then remember this….

"He who has no sins cast the first stone" 

"Be the change you want to see"

 

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