Why do men lie
Why do men lie?
This is the million dollar question my girl friends and I ask each other all the time. Why is it that they must feel the need to try to get over on a woman? Is it to show they have the upper hand? That they are "the man"? Is it to be the big boy on campus? What is the reason for this?
Do they feel they must always look a certain way, carry themselves a certain way? To prove their worth?
I guess when you can't fully comprehend why a person would do horrible things, it's because you could never see yourself doing these same things, so you cant grasp the idea for purposely hurting another person.
When my girlfriend decided to go out with this guy who was continuing to pursue her for weeks at the gym, she thought he was a nice guy. Hell, I even thought he was a nice guy.
(Okay, so I am not the best person to judge men!)
She went out with him and guess what Yup, he lied, he was married, now really? Why would you lie and pursue a woman when you have another at home?
Why would you want to go through all the trouble to try to keep up with all your lies? People do things, to get a result. You do drugs to feel the high, most people start drinking to dull a pain they have, your a sex addict because never felt loved and you keep looking for it in every person you sleep with.
So what do you get from lying? The fact you got away with it? The excitement of getting caught? Again we are baffled as we couldn't imagine doing that. My girlfriend tells me all the time about married men that hit on her (Yes, she knows they are married) and it pisses her off! We know you are married, so what does that say about what you think about us? That we are okay with your lying and cheating? That we are okay being your side piece? Not a chance buddy...Not happening.
Wake up! What we do think is that you're a pathetic liar and cheater, and guess what? It does nothing for us, no we don't feel flattered, we don't think it's cute, we actually think you're a slime bag, and that you obviously have no respect for us, your wife or yourself.
In all the years I've been writing this blog I have only called out one person, Mr. Con Artist because it was a public service announcement for other women out there.
I had no idea he was married but as soon as I found out, I kicked him to the curb, I found and told his wife and I put it out there so that others didn't fall for his lying ass.
Sorry you're not going to think it's alright to lie and cheat mister.
So today my friends, remember the next time you choose to lie, think about why you are doing it, think about the people you are hurting and think about how others view you. I'll never forget a message someone sent me while I was going through that.
She said "At 19 then are the sins of a boy, at 50 they are the character of the man"
Ask yourself, what is your character?
What kind of man are you?
You are your word and if your word is worthless, well then, so are you!
Be the change you want to see"
"And just when the caterpillar thought his life over...he turned into a beautiful butterfly"
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