Enjoying Yourself Without A Man

Enjoying Yourself Without A Man

If you know me or follow me you know that for the last few years I've been single. I have only been on a few dates since I ended my relationship with the Prince. 

If you read my blog, before him, I dated a lot and blog about those dates, a lot. Well, at least I got something out of those horrible dates.

But since covid and the breakup I decided to work on myself and I decided to invest that time with my girls. My little one, yes I know she's 26 now but she will always be my little one. She was going through some things then and I needed to give her my full attention. I also wanted to be single, to find me again and I had to heal my broken heart. I didn't want to jump into another relationship without unpacking my shit from this one.

I know so many women who do this. Here's my new man, oh, no…here's my new man. Wait, this is my new man now, I love him so much. Come on, you are laughing now because you know someone like that. Some who every week are posting that this “one” is the one.

I was not going to do that. And so for me, to find myself, I started to exercise more. I took walks in the woods, and I started new home projects. When the world opened back up, I went back to church, met up with friends, went dancing and saw live bands again. I went biking and started rollerblading again at my favorite place, the beach.

I wrote…a lot, I got deep into myself and realized that I was good without a man. Now look, I am definitely not one of those men hating women, before you come at me. I want a man in my life but I am not willing to sacrifice myself or my peace in the process. 

If God has a man for me, he will bring them and if not I'm okay. I am blessed with my girls, my church, my friends and family. I have interests, and I am fulfilled. I don't need a man to complete me, I am complete. 

So today my friends, my advice to you is that you have to work on yourself. You have to take the time and own your own shit. You might want to go to therapy and learn your patterns and why you pick the men you do. You have to learn to forgive and let your anger and bitterness leave you. You can't keep jumping from one relationship to another without unpacking your shit. 

You have to have your own interests and learn to be okay with and by yourself. But most of all you have to learn to enjoy yourself, with or without a man, this is your life, we only get one and we don't know how much time we have here, so live! Enjoy today! 

And like I say at the end of every blog…be the change you want to see. 

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