We All Need To Own What We Do In Our Lives
We All Need To Own What We Do In Our Lives
You need to stand up and own who you are and what choices you have made.
Because if you don't own it here you will have to own it later. See in the end we will all be judged on what we've done here on earth.
I write this blog every day, I put myself out there to be judged every day. I own each and every mistake I make and then I place it out here for you all to see.
Look, I owned that I stayed in a horrible marriage.
I own that I had an emotional affair for five years.
I own that I fell in love with a man who wouldn't or couldn't love me back.
I own that I was taken in by someone who used me and lied and cheated on me.
I own that I keep going for narcissist, controlling men over and over.
These are my mistakes and I stand up, raise my hand and take full responsibility for them.
You can't blame people for your mistakes. You can't say because I got caught, it 's all your fault. If you want to grow and change, you must grow up and deal with the aftermath of what you have done. It is only then you will be able to change.
I remember being with my girls in NY. I was driving their Aunt Pam's car and we drove it into the garage and opened the hatch not knowing the ceiling wasn't high enough. I heard a sickening sound and we got out to see what we did. There was a dent in the back of her trunk. At the time my girls were young and said "Mommy don't tell Aunt Pam, she will get mad, she won't know if we don't tell"
I said "No, but I will. I did this, and I have to own this" I marched them upstairs to apologize and offer to pay to fix it. Come to find out the dent was there because they didn't realize that the garage was too low as well.
The lesson I taught them is to do the right thing. To own what you do, to apologize and take responsibility to make things right. We grow, we learn, and hopefully we change for the better but unless you're willing to step up and deal with your issues, you will never go on to your next level. This time we are living in right now is ready to teach many people lessons. Who are you? What do you stand for? Are you owning up to what you did and the consequences of your actions?
So today my friends remember you need to own up. Believe me it's not so bad, at least you're not doing it in front of thousands of people like I do each and every day. Then forgive yourself, because all screw up, we are human. You need to own it, forgive or ask for forgiveness and then let it go.
That is what I do when I write these blogs. I own it, I forgive myself and let it go.
See, life is too short for regrets! Own it, then live life big, live it to the fullest, and live it with a clear heart.
Let's all be the change we want to see.
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