Okay, now get over it!

Okay, now get over it!

Get over it! Yes, I realize that, that might be a little harsh but there are so many people out there who need to hear it.
Get on with your life already!!

Yes, we all have things that have happened to us in our life. Some of us have had it worst than others but that doesn't mean we are meant to be stopped in that spot and that we have to stay there.

Yes, your man cheated, he lied to you and broke your heart. Does that mean for the next ten, twenty or in my grandmother's or ex mother in law's case, 40 years later, we are still going to have to hear about it every day!

Yes, your mother was an alcoholic, your father beat you, you were abandoned as a child and grew up in the system, is that who you are?

No, these are circumstances that happened to you, this is not who you are. Unless you make it, who you are.These can be the things that make you stronger, that change who you are for the better if you chose to make it that way. Or these can be the things that break you and leave you stuck in that spot forever.

Yes, the choice is up to you. You chose to become a better parent because your parents was so lousy. You chose not to drink because you remember what it was like to pick up your parents off the floor and clean them up night after night.

You chose not to cheat and lie because you seen how it broke your grandmother's heart 40 years later but you chose something and then you get on with your life.

You don't spend the next how many years whining about it, giving life to it every day. Don't stay tuck in that spot unable to move forward. No! You get up! You hopefully learn a lesson, because everything that happens to us teaches us a lesson if we are willing to look for it. Then you take your lesson and you move on. That's it, move on, end of story.

We all have problems, if you don't I feel sorry for you as you have never learned any lessons. Trust and believe if we were to sit around a table and each one of us would take out our problems and put them on the table, I guarantee you, you would be quick to grab yours back!

So let it go, its over, its called the past for a reason, forgive, and then get on with your life. How long has this been holding you back? How long will you continue to let this thing keep you stuck? Life is way to short to be stuck, to be miserable, to hold on to past hurts. Start your life over from this minute, its never to late to get over it.

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"And just when the caterpillar thought his life over...he turned into a beautiful butterfly"

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