Are you a bully?
Are you a bully?
Now we all know what is going to happen since the presidential debates are here, each candidate will be slinging mud at each other. We all know how one is an out and out bully and he will stop at nothing to make Joe Biden look bad or anyone who says anything about him and so it got me thinking about the rest of us.
So many people today are bullies, you have cyber bullies, co worker bullies, even so called "friend" bullies. Yes, they can come in all forms, even the person you're in love with can be a bully. I can't imagine growing up in today's world where if you do one stupid thing it's all over the Internet for the whole world to see. Everyone now has a say about it as if you didn't already know what a stupid thing you did, you now have millions chiming in and putting in their two cents.
The computer bullies are the worst, these are the people who sit high and mighty behind their keyboards and have something nasty to say about everyone. Even though they have never met them or know anything about these people or their lives. Funny thing is, they have no real balls to ever say anything in real life but behind that screen, watch out.
I even had guys on the dating site take time out of their days to tell me they didn't like my profile or my hair style really?? Do you not have a life? Didn't your mothers ever teach you if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything? Apparently not!
We've all known the coworker bully, who makes you feel bad if you don't do something right, who will be the first to run to rat you out about anything to the boss, yup we've all encountered them. Which reminds me of family bullies, like my cousin who couldn't wait to tell on me and her sister for everything, all the time. It was as if she got a high out of us getting our ass beat.
Yes, even your loved one can be a bully. My ex would stop talking to me, he would withhold love, for days on end to punish me for whatever he thought my infractions were. He would make it seem like I was crazy all while telling me that I was useless and pathetic.
Yes, bullies come in all shapes and forms and they get pleasure out of causing you pain.
It makes them feel superior when they are telling you how stupid you are.
It gives their egos a boost telling you how ugly you are. It gives them power knowing their words can hold so much over you.
I shake my head at the things #45 has said and think, doesn't anyone realize what a bully he is? With quotes like "Laziness is a trait in blacks"
Or She's a bitch, she's ugly, their nice people (speaking of the Natzis)
It's unbelievable that people actually want him back for a second term as he is the world's biggest bully.
Years ago I used to worry about what people said about me, I was a people pleaser. I wanted you to like me and would do anything to get your approval but those days are long over. If you have to put me down to make yourself feel better then there is something wrong with you, not me. You need to fix yourself, you have issues, and I tell my girls that all the time when his words cut them to the core.
Here's the thing, I am not the prettiest, okay so what.
Is my ass big? Yeah me and more than half the world. Do I have a big mouth? Absolutely but the difference between me and you is I would never say or write anything to intentionally hurt another human being. If you took it wrong and assumed that I did then I would be the first to apologize for making you feel bad.
I want to lift others up,
I want to inspire others,
I tell my girls, their friends, my friends, even my readers who write to me that there is nothing they can't do, that they are smart and beautiful.
Why is it so hard for people to do that, you are you and I am me (Okay grammar natzi's go on, have a field day and believe me they will. As if I was a professor or something, please...I write like I speak, so frigging sue me!)
I might not be as beautiful or smart as someone else but I have my God given talents. We all have our own gifts, our own personality and that is what makes the world so special that we are not stepford wives, all the same, walking around like each other. We can applaud others accomplishments, we can be proud and show love without being jealous or petty.
So today my friends, remember what it says about a person who has to call names to others? What does it say when you need to put someone down in order to feel good about yourself?
What are you getting out of it, that you absolutely don't have inside of yourself?
The only time you should look down on someone is if you're offering them a hand up...that's it and especially if you want to run our country.
This is not the leader I want my children to look up to and think it's okay for this behavior ever!
So choose your words wisely... choose your candidate wisely...and remember the tongue is sharper than a sword.
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