Okay, Now Get Over It!

Okay, Now Get Over It!

Yes, I realize that might be a little harsh but there are so many people out there who need to hear this. Get on with your life already!! 

Yes, we all have things that have happened to us in our life, some of us worse than others but that doesn't mean we are stuck in that spot and that we stay there forever.

Yes, your man cheated. 

He lied to you and broke your heart, does that mean for the next ten, twenty or in my grandmother's or ex-mother-in-law's case, 40 plus years later, are we still going to have to hear about it every single day? Seriously, get over it. 

Yes, your mother was an alcoholic, your father beat you, or you were abandoned as a child and grew up in the system, is that who you are? No, these are circumstances that happened to you, this is not who you are. These are the things that can make you stronger, that can change who you are for the better,

) if you choose to make it that way. This is not your destiny unless you allow it to be.

Yes, believe it or not, you get to choose to become a better parent because your parents were so lousy. You get to choose not to drink because you remember what it was like to pick up your parents off the floor and clean them up night after night.

You chose not to cheat and lie because you saw how it broke your grandmother's heart, 40 years later but you chose something and then you get on with your life. You don't spend the next how many years whining about it, giving life to it every day, and being stuck in that spot unable to move forward unless you allow it to take over your life. 

No! You get up, and you hopefully learn a lesson. Because everything that happens to us teaches us a lesson if we are willing to look for it. You stop saying this is happening to me and start saying this is happening for me. Then you take your lesson and you move on. That's it, move on, end of story.

We all have problems. If you don't have any problems I feel sorry for you as you have never learned any lessons. But trust and believe if we were to sit around a table and each one of us would take out our problems and put them on the table, I guarantee you, you would be quick to grab yours back.

So today my friends I am here to tell you to let it go. 

I am here to say that it is over, it's called the past for a reason, so leave it there. You must learn to forgive, forgive yourself, and forgive them, for no other reason than to let go of your hatred and anger towards them and then get on with your life. How long has this been holding you back? Life is way too short to be stuck, start your life over from this minute, it's never too late to get over it.

We can all be the change you want to see, it's up to you.

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