The definition of insanity

The definition of insanity

What is the definition of insanity?

It is when you keep doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.

I was just speaking to my girlfriend about this, because I know I do this when it comes to men. I keep giving chance after chance thinking it will be different.
Hell, I even wrote about it this week, when an ex tried to come back into the picture and even though I knew the end results because of past behaviors, I still thought "well maybe.."

Why do we do that? Why do we keep trying to do things over and over expecting different results? We want it to be different, we will it to be different, we pray for it to be different, yet time and time again the results are the same!

We stay in the same relationship for years after years hoping that he wont cheat or lie again yet there he goes with another excuse of why he strayed again and there you go taking him back again.

We let our spouse physically and verbally abuse us. Then they cry and say they are sorry, that they will never do it again and then next month you are crying yet again from the words that cut you to the core.

The drunk that lives with you or the pill popper that swears in a drunken, drugged up haze that this will be the last time that you will cleaning the puke off their faces and yet the next week, you are there doing just that.

Yet, in ever promise, in every tear, you believe that things will change. That it will be better and each time you seem like the star of the movie Groundhogs day, where he wakes up every day replaying the same day over and over, except this is not a movie, this is your life!!

You need to take a step of faith, you never to know it's never going to change, if it hasn't by now it never will. Don't get me wrong I am a big believer in change. I know people can change, that you should have forgiveness, that everyone deserves  second chance. Yes, I do believe that but I also believe in cutting your loses and running like Forrest Gump when its beneficial to your health and well being. Run Forrest run!

I promote self wellness and even though I may be like Tinkerbell and I believe in happily  ever after, I am not here to sugar coat things. If you want that, watch Willy Wonka, I don't sugar coat shit, sorry I'm not him.

Be real, open your eyes, listen to your inner voice. The one you try to quiet, the one you try to justify by your excuses, the one that is screaming...get out, not true, their lying!

Yes, that one. Listen to that voice, it knows the truth, even if you are wearing your rose colored glasses, that voice sees it all!

So stop the insanity today! Get off this crazy ride you are on, stop doing the same things expecting different results. It's unbelievable what change can do to your life, I am a living witness to that, Hell if I can do it, you'll have no problem.

So today my friends, I am stopping the insanity as I now know the definition of it. It is doing the same things, expecting different results. So be like me and be the change...

"Be the change you want to see"
 
"And just when the caterpillar thought his life over...he turned into a beautiful butterfly"

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