First Loves...

First loves...

I write about all kinds of things but all of it comes from my heart and what I am passionate about.

This topic touches my heart more than any other I have written about because I am such a romantic at heart.

I believe in happily ever after, in Cinderella. I believe in Prince Charming, in flowers, cards, slow dancing and soul mates.

Yes, I am Tinker bell, and I believe.

I definitely believe in first loves and how they hold a place in your heart forever. How do I know this? Because my first love was my high school sweetheart and it was the most real love I have ever found in my life.

It shaped my life so much that I wrote a book about it. It's been a lasting love story throughout my life. 

He taught me to love, to believe in love at first sight. He taught me to try new things, to open up my mind and my heart. He taught me that I could do anything, and that with love you could overcome any obstacle. He was sweet, kind, caring, romantic and loved me like no one has ever done before or since.

But I wanted more…

I wanted the good life. 

I wanted money.

I wanted to travel and I wanted a bigger lifestyle than I had growing up. 

This small town and this country boy didn't fit into my grand scheme of things and so I left looking for a better life. Somehow I thought I could see the world and still come back to this man who held my heart.

But life is strange and doesn't always work the way you want it to and to my dismay he had moved on.

There was never a day I didn't think of him, of us. No matter how many men I had in and out of my life, he always held my heart.

He came back into my life years later while I was in the midst of my horrible marriage and he said he didn't know me anymore. 

He said that I would never given my power away like I had done in this marriage. Who was I? Who did I become? 

That statement changed my life forever. His words and his belief in me gave me the courage to take a stand and take back my self worth.

I began looking for my old self and realized that I liked me, the real me, not the me my ex wanted me to be. As every day passed I got stronger until I had enough strength to leave. I don't think I would have if I didn't believe his words.

We still kept in touch and even now he still holds a piece of my heart, because of him I had the courage to change my life. I am grateful for his love and support and for being a part of my life.

So today my friends I am here to tell you that even after all my dating mishaps, after all of my kissing frogs, I still believe that one day I will find a true love like this again....because no matter what I am a true romantic at heart. And all of this is because of what my first love taught me.

"Be the change you want to see"

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