Owning what you do

Owning what you do

I am big on owning your own shit, that you should stand up and say I did it.

What is so hard about telling someone that I made a mistake and I am sorry? To say I raise my hand, I did this and I apologize. For me there is always a lesson to be learned so I ask, what is the lesson I am supposed to learn from this? What did I do and what can I change so it won't happen again.

I respect people who can own their shit, who don't let their ego's stand in their way, people who aren't afraid to say they were wrong. That makes you a real man or woman in my eyes and the eyes of the world. People who tell me it was all their partners fault in their divorce, like they weren't even part of it, are full of shit.

Look even in my horrible marriage, with all the things he did and believe me there was a lot, I still had to own my crap I did.

Yes, I lied. Yes, I had an emotional affair. Yes, I didn't want him to hang out with my friends. Yes, I checked out 5 years before the end and called it in, not wanting to fix anything just trying to plan my escape. Hello, this was my stuff I did in this marriage and I had to own it.There are two people in a marriage, you both did things and if you say you didn't, your a better liar than I was.

I remember watching #45 when he got into office, how he said this was all President Obama's fault, how this one did this, and that one did that and how he knew nothing. 

And watching him again now in these investigations, how he has ducked and weaved all the questions and yet again and again blamed everyone but himself. But the topper for me was then he had an attitude with the press for asking him questions, he clearly didn't want to answer.

No, he wanted and said as much to the press, only the nice questions. He was willing to only answer the reporters who were willing to blow smoke up his ass. It was then that I lost it, own your shit, stand up, be a man, be the President for Christ sake!

What now we can't ask questions that bother you? What now, will you will tell everyone to shut up and sit down like on your TV show because you won't own your shit?

I am sorry I don't respect anyone who thinks they are above the law, who thinks that they are always right and then is willing to do anything to make you look wrong or look like an idiot just because you don't agree with them. Wait...isn't that called dictatorship?

I am here to tell you, yes, it doesn't feel good when you screw up, when you picked the loser yet again, when you get screwed over by people who you trusted. And yes, it feels really bad when you then admit it to the world like I do in my blogs but at least I am honest. I am real, I screw up but I am willing to admit my wrong doings and I will eventually get passed my embarrassment to learn the lessons I am supposed to learn.

I tell you my readers, that we are all not perfect and here I am willing to admit it for the world to see.

So today my friends, ask yourself what are you hiding? What won't you own? Why is it so hard to admit your wrong doings? Take a stand today and own your shit and then expect others to do the same, starting with the president.

"Be the change you want to see"

 

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