What s it you really want?
What is it you really want?
We all want something, a great job, better health, an amazing person in our life but sometimes we have such high expectations, so high that they are unattainable.
You want that better job but you don't want to put the effort into it, to work the long hours it takes. You want better health but you're not willing to get up every morning at 5am to go to the gym (believe me it's not easy and some mornings it literally sucks!)
You want an amazing person but you want them to come in this perfect package, this tall, this weight, looks like this and on and on.
You sometimes will pass up a good thing because it doesn't come in a package you want it to. Sure it would be nice to find the love of your life with all your bullet points that you're looking for but what if they live 1500 miles away? What if they aren't 6'1 with blue eyes like the one you were dreaming of?
Yet you didn't want to try to figure out a way to work it out, because it didn't fit your criteria, you would have missed out on an amazing thing.
Maybe you're looking for Mr Hunky, now you got him but it turns out he's a meathead or Miss America and she has no brains and is really ugly inside, or maybe it's the guy with the fancy title and lots of money, you really want, who turns out to be cheap and selfish. Maybe you only want the person who is so beautiful but because of that they cheat on you all the time. Yes, you got what you wanted but not what you were expecting.
What about work? You took that job making six figures and now you have no time for your family or friends, you're on call 24/7. Is the big bucks worth no life to you?
Don't you want to find the person who makes you feel like you're the only person that matters, that treats you like a queen or king?
Don't you want to know that person is not going to cheat or lie to you? That they will stick by you through thick and thin, be there no matter what? Wouldn't you like that dream job that truly makes you happy? Would you take it even if it meant a big pay cut? How about that body you've always wanted, how bad do you want it? Bad enough to give up the foods you love?
Yes, sometimes it doesn't come the way you want, in the package you're looking for but if you are so closed minded you may miss the best thing you will ever have. You may miss the opportunity of a lifetime, or even miss out on life itself by not taking care of yourself.
Sometimes you have to figure out a way to make it work, to see what could be.Sometimes you have to take that leap of faith, you have to push past the hurt to get to the goal, sometimes you have to get out of your own damn way first, to get to what you want.
So today my friends, remember you never know until you step out and take a chance, until you throw away your preconceived ideas of what is "perfect" in your mind and really look at what is "perfect" in real life. What is meant to be? What will make you truly happy.
You will not find it until you ask yourself what it is that you really want?
"Be the change you want to see"
"And just when the caterpillar thought his life over...he turned into a beautiful butterfly"
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