Life is about living

Life is about living...

The best laid plans mean nothing when you live your life large...
This has been my motto since I got divorced, I spent too many years unhappy, miserable in a life I hated and since I got my freedom I live my life to the fullest.

This weekend was the perfect example of this. I had plans to stay home, I had things to do, but I threw them out the window when I was invited out to dinner and live music on the beach. I love the beach and I love live music and you only live once so screw it, let's go!

Sunday instead of church, I slept in and even though we didn't plan it, they were all off and I got to spend time with my girls making and having brunch together. We drank mimosas, we laughed, we caught up and then relaxed and watched a movie together. We were living in the moment, enjoying our time together as a family.
It was the perfect Sunday morning.

Later that afternoon a friend came over to help me with a project and he invited me out to lunch afterwards.
Even though I had a list of things to do, I choose to live in the moment yet again and enjoy the time with him.
That evening while  I was doing some work someone I hadn't heard from in a long while texted me and asked me to come out for a drink to catch up.
I left my stuff on the couch and went, it turned into a beautiful night on the water catching up.

I would have missed all of these amazing moments if I was so strict on my lists or what "needed" to be done. I went with the flow, I allowed these thing just to happen and I am so glad I did.

My point is that life is too short, the dishes, the laundry,  the list of crap you need to do is still going to be there, long after your dead.
But the people you love and care about, well that can be gone in an instant. Trust and believe it when I tell you that I have lost way too many people in one lifetime, so I speak from experience when I say that.

We weren't meant to work all the time, to make money and not have human connection. On our death beds you won't be saying I wish I worked more and made more money. No, you will be saying I wish I spent more time with my family and friends. I wish I did the things I loved, I wish I would have had a bucket list, I wish.... I wish..... for more time....

You have time...now, this moment, this second, don't waste it, don't have regrets later on.

So today my friends, remember that this is what life is about, it's about making memories, it's about being present in the moment, it's about the memories, the laughter, it's about living life large and on your terms....
The list will still be there, the dishes, the laundry...will still be there long after your dead and gone. So
Live your best life today.

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