Why are you hating so much?
Why are you hating so much?
Lately there is so much of this going on. Especially now with the elections, people like to talk, even though they know nothing about you. People talk about you even when they don't even know you, just from what they think they know about you.
Why do people do this? Is it that they are petty and jealous? That they see you and maybe see what you have and automatically they hate on you? For no other reason then that?
My question to them is are you not happy with yourself? Are you not secure with yourself?
It is about your issues, not the person your hating on?
Seriously do you know anything about that person? Do you know how much they struggled? Do you know how many nights they cried themselves to sleep and then got up and put a fake smile on for the world to see?
You know nothing of what it took to get to this moment, yet you speak on it as if you're an expert.
People do this all the time on the Internet, as if it gives them a free pass to criticize someone, to throw hate on them, to put someone down because it's easy to sit behind your computer screen and hate on people.
I remember when I got this home, I was blessed to have many wonderful friends step up and help me. Their kindness made me cry and I was overwhelmed that some flew across the country to be with me and help me out.
And yet some people actually had the nerve to say I paid for the work with sexual favors… Really??
What just because you have no friends that would go above and beyond for you, you assume that is the only way I could get this.
Do you know how many times I've helped them move? How many times have I been there for them in the past? How many free haircuts I gave because I knew the situation they were in and I was just trying to be a friend?
No, you know none of this because you don't know me, if you were my friend you would know who I am and what kind of friend that I am. You would know that I have had friendships since I was 5, that these friends are the family I choose for myself...but you know nothing because you chose to automatically assume the worst. This is what is wrong with society today, so many people assume the worst or just assume in general when they know nothing about that person.
Oprah recently said if you can't ignore your haters, you can't be famous. I get that everyone is going to talk about you, believe me I get that. When my girls use to come to me and cry that this one or that one talked about them I use to tell them that when I was in high school everyone said I was a whore because I had a lot of guy friends. The truth was I was with the same guy for 6 years, all through high school and was a virgin until I was 18, yet they "knew" about me….please give me a break. I used to tell them people will talk shit, you just keep doing you and don't worry about them.
So then why does it sometimes get to me? Because I would never assume anything about anyone, I don't know you and I certainly don't know your struggles, so why would I pretend to know you? I wouldn't automatically think the worst of a person, I wouldn't just hate on a person just to hate on them.
So I assume the rest of the world is like me but they are not. One of my biggest lessons in the last few years is not everyone has your heart and you just need to deal with that fact.
As I always say we are here to learn lessons, even if it took me this many years to learn this one.
So today my friends, (My real friends) remember before you speak of someone, know who they are, know of their hard times, know of their struggles, think about the fact that maybe they are going through something you know nothing about.
Life is too short to be hateful and mean, to be envious and petty, to be jealous and spiteful.
We only have so much time here, let's spend it being kind, speaking hope and love, uplifting each other and being grateful for what we do have. Really life is way too short...why are you hating so much?
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