How much dead weight are you pulling around

How much dead weight are you pulling around?

I was listening to Steve Harvey this morning and he asked that question and it made me start thinking. How many people are in your cart? Who is helping you? And how many of them are dead weight?

He started by saying "You have a old wooden cart with wood wheels and a long thick rope. There are rope burns on your arms and shoulders from pulling it by yourself, but this is your cart and you have to pull it yourself. Hopefully you will find a good partner who will jump off the cart to give you water or feed you when your hungry. They may kick a rock out of your path but you know that they are helping you in your journey and that they are just as important because they are helping you and your cart.

Then you might have family or friends who have their legs off the side, maybe they are helping you push, their backs are against yours, giving you that little bit of extra help to get up that hill. They may be kicking rocks out of your way, but they are giving you support.

Then there are the ones in your cart that are laying down, they are drinking lemonade and asking when are they going to get there. What's taking so long? Telling you that your never going to get there, you know you can't do this, it's too hard.. See they are the Dead weight"

Now we all have some dead weight in our lives, people who are negative and that we need to cut out like cancer, they got to go, you know it's infecting you and everyone around them.
Yes, they might be family or they might even be your best friend but it doesn't matter, they have to go!

I speak this because I have cut the cancer from my life. Yes, I am a loyal friend till the end but there has to come a time when you are getting sick and tired of them. You know that they are just trying to keep you down, when you need to fly!
You have to realize that, it's not that you don't love them but that it's for your own health, for your own good, this is your life.
You need to get rid of the dead weight! So how many of you know who's the dead weight in your own cart? You know who it is! Throw them out, that hill is way to steep to make it unless everyone is helping you to make it up there. When they are gone your will feel the weight taken off your shoulders, litterally!

So today my friends remember, you need to put you first, it's okay the world is not going to end if you do this! And when you do that the mountain is not going to look so hard ad you'll realize how much dead weight you were pulling along all this time.

"Be the change you want to see"
 
"And just when the caterpillar thought his life over...he turned into a beautiful butterfly"

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